One of the most cherish things in life is friendship, and once you find your true friend, it will be very hard to destroyed that bond between one-another.
It doesn't matter what happens in life, as friends it is only normal to have different ways of thinking, different reactions, different personalities, but one thing friends have in common...and that is that they care for each other feelings, for their well being, and they are capable of doing merely the impossible to see the friend happy and at peace.
A few months ago, my best friend Anne and I had to part separate ways, the reason is already forgotten, all i can say is that at that moment the way of thinking was way too different from one another and we could not agree on what was the best things for neither of us.....after much turmoil, we decided that the best thing was to be "away" from each other for a while, I know in my heart i hurt her, as many times i have said, i am a perfectionist and extremely possessive of the people surrounding me.....at that time i could see my friend drifting away not only from me, but her family and other friends, and that hurt my heart very deeply.
My mistake? Letting her down; at that precisely moment she needed me more than anything, i can honestly say that I was the only one trying to understand what she was going through and i just quited on her, but not because i did not care, or because i didn't wanted to be a part of the problem, i ran away from her, out of frustration, and anger and bitterness, but that will be another subject.
Last time i saw her was just before Christmas last year, and never got the chance to even give her her Christmas presents, excuses? yes many, i just didn't want to face her, i knew i had hurt her but i also felt very hurt......so we let the pain heal.
After many many months, many many text messages ( we did not even speak over the phone) we decided it was time to mend all of what had happened in the past.
And we did, we had the opportunity to go out, and have a wonderful dinner, with a very good bottle of wine....and we talked, and talked, and talked.
And I realize that my friend is still there, willing to forget the past, look ahead at the feature, with the same smile as always.
It seem like all that bad time never happened, at least to me, that is how i felt, and it felt awesome to finally hug my friend, look to her in her eyes and it was like nothing ever happened.
Negative times were left out, we talk about our projects, about work, about family, about dreams.....
We had the best time ever, like the old times, like always....
I love you my dear friend, this is just for you ;-)
P.D. I had to do this post in English because she doesn't know much Spanish, so i hope you guys understand