lunes, mayo 21, 2007

FRIENDSHIP

One of the most cherish things in life is friendship, and once you find your true friend, it will be very hard to destroyed that bond between one-another.

It doesn't matter what happens in life, as friends it is only normal to have different ways of thinking, different reactions, different personalities, but one thing friends have in common...and that is that they care for each other feelings, for their well being, and they are capable of doing merely the impossible to see the friend happy and at peace.

A few months ago, my best friend Anne and I had to part separate ways, the reason is already forgotten, all i can say is that at that moment the way of thinking was way too different from one another and we could not agree on what was the best things for neither of us.....after much turmoil, we decided that the best thing was to be "away" from each other for a while, I know in my heart i hurt her, as many times i have said, i am a perfectionist and extremely possessive of the people surrounding me.....at that time i could see my friend drifting away not only from me, but her family and other friends, and that hurt my heart very deeply.

My mistake? Letting her down; at that precisely moment she needed me more than anything, i can honestly say that I was the only one trying to understand what she was going through and i just quited on her, but not because i did not care, or because i didn't wanted to be a part of the problem, i ran away from her, out of frustration, and anger and bitterness, but that will be another subject.

Last time i saw her was just before Christmas last year, and never got the chance to even give her her Christmas presents, excuses? yes many, i just didn't want to face her, i knew i had hurt her but i also felt very hurt......so we let the pain heal.

After many many months, many many text messages ( we did not even speak over the phone) we decided it was time to mend all of what had happened in the past.

And we did, we had the opportunity to go out, and have a wonderful dinner, with a very good bottle of wine....and we talked, and talked, and talked.

And I realize that my friend is still there, willing to forget the past, look ahead at the feature, with the same smile as always.

It seem like all that bad time never happened, at least to me, that is how i felt, and it felt awesome to finally hug my friend, look to her in her eyes and it was like nothing ever happened.

Negative times were left out, we talk about our projects, about work, about family, about dreams.....

We had the best time ever, like the old times, like always....

I love you my dear friend, this is just for you ;-)



P.D. I had to do this post in English because she doesn't know much Spanish, so i hope you guys understand

13 comentarios:

Evan dijo...

Es emocionante leerte... la amistad es el regalo más lindo que podemos hacernos.

Felicidades por el reencuentro!

Un beso a ambas.

Erika dijo...

Great to know you've fixed things with your friend... Friends are threasures we must guard as brave dogs and keep them always close, if not phisically, at least in our hearts... good for you girl!

Citizen dijo...

q bonito q te expreses de esa forma de una gran amiga.
Y por lo del inglés, no hay problema... la amistad es la misma en inglés o en español...
Un gusto leerte...
Muchos abrazo

Caramelo de Cianuro dijo...

Nancy, qué mejor noticia que la de haber recuperado a tu amiga. En alguna ocasión he estado en una situación semejante y es una sensación increíble comprobar que lo malo se lo ha llevado el tiempo, pero que lo que nos unón antes permanece. Felicidades y que vuelvas a disfrutar a tu amiga como debe ser.

Angie Sandino dijo...

Te felicito por haber recuperado esa amistad... lo mejor del mundo se prueba en compartir los sentimientos con la gente que elegimos como cercana...

Un abrazo para ambas y que Dios les guarde ese cariño para toda su vida!

Mauro Enrrique... dijo...

La amistad es lo mas importante de este mundo, tener buenos amigos es lo mejor que te puede pasar en la vida...

Un Fuerte abrazo...

Carolina E. dijo...

Una amistad asi, no se puede perder. Siempre habrá problemas, pero cuando el cariño es enorme como el suyo, todo se arregla tarde o temprano. Su cena se me antojóoo...

Un abrazo y un beso ;)

Carlos dijo...

I also preserve 2 infancy friends, Cristian and Rusbel.

The friendship with them goes back 24 years ago, to share anecdotes, good and bad moments.
Smiles and tears, this it is the friendship.

Very, very Guapérrima your friend!!

Sr. yes Sr. =)

Kisses N.Q.

Patricia dijo...

Que bueno que tu y tu amiga hicieron las pases, amigas puede haber muchas pero verdaderas amigas no y tal vez no siempre vayan de acuerdo una con otra porque no todos podemos ser iguales pero mientras estemos dispuestos a perdonar y dejar el orgullo de lado esta perfecto.

mL dijo...

me pareceestupendo todo lo que dices... basta ya, que todas las palmeras tengan sus monos.

Amor dijo...

es una delicia cuando termina la tensión y el malentendido con alguien a quien queremos
un beso grande, nancy, de mucho
amor

Bettina Perroni dijo...

We cannot choose the family, but friends are those that our heart has selected. A good friend is always close to us... to support, to share, to be there in good or bad circumstances.

A misunderstading can affect a friendship when it is not strong enough... I think you have a very good friend and she is also lucky because of your frienship.

Good! :D

Mariana dijo...

Congratulations on your lovely friendship that you both are sharing together! To face the past and confront the future together is the best thing you did!

Kisses!

Mariana.

;-)